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Living in Egypt
by Amy Abdel-Razek
July 16, 2005
I have decided to write about Egypt because
so many people have a lot of misconceptions about Egypt and
Egyptian people. That became quite evident to me in the camp
here, as there is a big diversity of nationalities. Everyone
has the same misconceptions! To set things straight: Egyptians
do not have multiple wives, they do not ride camels and the
women do not walk around in black tents! Having said that
I would like to explain what is behind these misunderstandings.
Hundreds of years ago before the car was invented, camels
were used for transportation but now only the Bedouins (a
minority that live in the desert) are the ones that ride them.
The most famous image I think people have of Egypt is a man
with several wives (at the same time). In Islam it is permitted
for a man to marry four women but it is discouraged. The reason
it is allowed is if the woman is sick or unable to have children,
the man still has the opportunity to have children and live
a normal life without divorcing her. The wife has the right
to divorce if her husband marries another woman; it’s her
choice. Both women and men have the right to divorce if the
other is unable to conceive. It is also important to keep
in mind that before Islam there was no limit on the number
of wives one could have.
A large percentage of women in Egypt are veiled (i.e. wear
a head scarf) but only a very small minority cover their faces.
The notion of dressing conservatively in Islam stems from
the idea that women are precious and their bodies should be
hidden and protected. One last point, the average Egyptian
does not believe in terrorism and thinks that terrorists are
murders like most people in the world.
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